Valentine’s Day celebrates love and connection, making it the perfect time to discuss healthy relationships built on mutual respect and clear consent. As we embrace romance this February, let’s prioritize creating safe, consensual experiences for everyone in our campus community.
Understanding Consent
Consent is an ongoing, enthusiastic agreement between all parties involved in any romantic or intimate activity. It must be freely given, can be withdrawn at any time, and cannot be given when someone is impaired by alcohol or drugs. Consent isn’t just about saying “yes”—it’s about ensuring everyone feels comfortable and respected throughout any interaction.
Valentine’s Safety Tips
Whether you’re planning a first date or celebrating with a longtime partner, communication is key. Discuss boundaries openly, respect your partner’s comfort levels, and remember that romantic gestures should never feel pressured or coercive. If you’re attending Valentine’s parties or events, look out for friends and intervene if you notice concerning situations.
Resources and Support
Post University is committed to supporting students who experience sexual misconduct. If you need assistance or want to report an incident, you have multiple options. Contact Director of Title IX and Disability Services Barbara Alenckis at 203.596.6027 or [email protected], or Senior Title IX Coordinator Rachel Powell at [email protected] and 203.591.5231. Both are available in North Hall 116. You can also report to Residence Life, Campus Safety, the Counseling Center, or trusted instructors and advisors.
Remember: healthy relationships thrive on respect, communication, and consent. Make this Valentine’s Day meaningful by celebrating love responsibly.
